Mar 042016

andre shakti

This week’s show features an interview with Andre Shakti, one of the busiest and queerest gals in porn. We talk desire, safety, and her work to re-eroticize acts and experiences that are traditionally taboo in today’s industry. Spend an hour with Shakti and learn to fuck the world on your own terms! Recorded live in person at the Sex Down South 2015 conference in Atlanta.

Tune in Friday, March 4th at 5 pm PT / 8 pm ET to hear this show premiere or listen to it on demand as a podcast. Join the discussion on Twitter where we livetweet each week. Sex Out Loud airs every Friday, you can listen along on your computer, tablet, or phone, find all the ways at If you missed any part of the episode or want to listen again, you can listen to every episode on demand here. Got a question or comment for the show? Call the SOL Hotline: 323-SEX-8266. Leave us your questions, stories, comments, and requests — 24/7 and we’ll play it on the air! (Or you can stay anonymous and ask Tristan to read it aloud.)

Andre Shakti is a Bay Area educator, producer, activist, and professional slut devoted to normalizing alternative desires, de-stigmatizing sex workers and their partners, and not taking herself too seriously.  She writes about sex work for Cosmopolitan online and is currently working on an anthology of sex advice anecdotes by sex workers for ThreeLMedia. She recently had an essay published in the anthology “Coming Out Like a Porn Star”.

Oct 282014

emily letts

This Friday on Sex Out Loud at 8 pm ET / 5 pm PT, I’m live with Emily Letts, who won the Abortion Care Network’s Stigma Busting video competition. The video documenting her own abortion experience went viral and became the subject of international headlines. She discuss why she decided to share her experience publicly, the response she’s gotten from others, and her work with NotAlone.Us, a website where women (and men) post videos of their abortion stories.

This week’s show is LIVE so call in with questions and comments at 1-866-472-5788, join the discussion on Facebook or Twitter, or e-mail me via tristan(at) and I’ll read them live on the air. Tune in to Sex Out Loud every Friday, you can listen along on your computer, tablet, or phone, find all the ways at!

Emily Letts currently lives in Chicago. Besides her work with NotAlone.US she is working on a dual masters in public health and social work at the University of Illinois at Chicago with a concentration in women’s health. Her video has over four million views and won the Judge’s Choice award in the Abortion Care Network’s first Abortion Stigma Busting Video Competition.