Mar 182016


Tonight’s episode celebrates the book Coming Out Like a Porn Star: Essays on Pornography, Protection, and Privacy. Hailed as one of the “Best Sex Books of 2015” by Reason Magazine, this pivotal book is the largest published collection of essays written by porn professionals about their industry. Three contributors – Lorelei Lee, James Darling, and Milcah Halili Orbacedo – join us to read from their essays and talk about the book’s release.

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lorelei-091Lorelei Lee has been an adult film performer since 2000 and a director since 2009.  Her writing has appeared in Salon, The Rumpus, Wired, Denver Quarterly, The Los Angeles Review of Books, and elsewhere. She is a contributor to The Feminist Porn Book and the cowriter of About Cherry, distributed by IFC Films. You can find her tweeting about politics and books @MissLoreleiLee, and about naked people @XOXOLoreleiLee.

jamesdarlingbedJames Darling is a bay area based trans adult performer, sex educator and director. James was included on the Trans 100 for his work in the adult industry, two time Transgender Erotica Awards FTM Performer of the year, Feminist Porn Awards Heartthrob of the Year and has been nominated numerous times at AVN, XBiz, and Cybersocket as a performer and director. Darling’s rise in porn began with his performance debut on, and continued with queer and trans porn studios, including T-Wood Pictures, TROUBLEfilms, Alternadudes and Buck Angel Entertainment. In 2012 James launched, one of the first all FTM porn membership sites and has since released four feature length films. His work has been featured internationally at film festivals, universities and conferences on topics related to trans issues, sex worker rights and privacy. You can find more of James Darling’s adventures on Twitter and Tumblr at JamesDarlingxxx.

Milcah Halili OrbacedoMilcah Halili Orbacedo is a writer and performer. Their writing has appeared on The Rumpus, Tits and Sass, Witch Craft Mag, Breakthrough, and Vice. Most of their adult film work can be found at They are obsessed with their work-in-progress memoir, Sisterhood, meditations on their intimate writer and pornographer friends. Follow Milcah on Twitter @SlutSmartSoul.